This is very new to me. But I know what works for me sexually and what doesn't and I prefer not to spend time in something that won't work, since I've done that for most of my life. I am a strong,intelligent woman, that could worship a dynamic, intelligent man, if he knows himself and it shows; you can make me want to relinquish control to your masculinity, your dominant power. If a man can't earn my interest verbally, it won't ever happen. I am tired of controlling my world, never meeting a man that has my strength or passion. I don't mean manipulative. Are you real, rare? I will know the difference.
No humiliation, not into pain, but anything else is possible. No 24/7, as outside of sex, I want total respect for my boundaries. Sexually, I want intense, complex physical exploration, sharing. One on one, respectful with only the limits of our own failure to connect. I need complete domination including verbal direction, instruction, only in the sexual realm, where I will give up my powerful, untouchable persona to a man that is strong enough to deserve my complete submission. Then I will be as open, wanton,submissive as you desire. Take me, handle me, possess me, use my body. But impress me first. If you don't love and respect women, this won't work.
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My Ideal Person:
Do you command respect by the very essence of who you are? Have you ever felt consumed by the desire to find your equal? Oh, but you can't take yourself too seriously and a great sense of humor is required. Any age is fine. Can you write, spell, get my attention through your effort to earn my attention. Powerful man. Smart, witty, clever, confident,generous, accomplished. A man who loves the scent, the very essence of everything female, who honors her, yet wants to possess her. Must impress me and earn my respect and then take me in every way. I want to experience my most passionate fantasies with a man that understands and is able to get into my head. I don't want random experiences or any angry man with a desire to hurt. I want to find the dominant male that I will want to please again and again. I want to learn how to be submissive. Teach me. Nothing cruel and always safe. Raw male passion, that comes from depth of passion and soulfulness, not anger. Into spanking, just because..? Not for me. It must be more than that. If your profile has two lines saying something like, "Let's play." I'm not for you. You have to want this much more than that and be willing to try much harder. You aren't going to be the average man. Nor will I be your average lay. If you have your penis showing on this site, you don't have the private demeanor that excites me. If you are intrigued by and respect a woman that expects a lot, we have somewhere to start.
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